are you wasting my time because of this? 15 years– where did your psychiatrist get her degree?
My father died in December 1989 and I was a little concerned about my mother’s finances. My sister had just moved from a secretarial position with DOJ to that of a Federal Officer working at BWI airport. As a matter of fact– when my father died my sister was in GA doing the training for the position.
My sister, Judy had never left home and was the only one of us kids [Regina, Judy, Andre] still living with my mother when my father died in 1989.
Jan, Greg and who I thought was their daughter Tai [then around 8 or so] left Dover, DE in June 1989. They had been bi-monthly visitors to my parents for weekends before leaving for San Jose, CA.
When my father died– I stayed with my mother for about 2 weeks because my sister was still in GA doing the federal training [returned home for about a week– and went back. I came over after everyone else left]. I owned property in Bowie, MD.
In 1992, when Jan and Greg were reassigned to NSA on Ft. Meade I was very happy. They were buying a new house within 2 miles of my mother and she would again have her weekend visitors. I was so busy at work. I remember Darnetta calling once to say I had not stopped by to see her [Darnetta]. I never stopped by Darnetta’s house to see her– I may have stopped by her parents’ house to see her family at their house in Odenton over the holidays– so this is now a red flag. At that time, I explained to Darnetta– I had not been by to see my mother in awhile either and finished our call. Rockwell was keeping me– very busy. Now I believe she may have been saying that about my mother.
The reason for this post? Raising my hand– and wondering if someone wasted a lot of my time thinking I was a hand raiser.
Every year my grandmother had a family reunion in Wilmington for the 4th of July. I seldom went. I went down in 1977 [the year I graduated from high school] and then again in 1987 or 1988. I was living on Walter Reed Dr. in Arlington at the time.
I went down in 1992. I drove and for some reason Jan and Greg rode with my mother in my father’s car. During the same family reunion– Greg and my mother took my car [1990 RX7 Convertible that I still own today] to the car wash and broke the retractable antenna because they did not turn the radio off when going through. I was almost ready to cuss him out.
I did not for two reasons. Jan gave me a look. I think everyone knew I could not stand Greg. I thought the look said– “regina, please don’t cuss him out”. The other reason– I was happy they were back and going to be finding things to do with my mother. It was a big worry off my mind. My sister worked swing shift work at BWI and was not always available– though she lived with my mother. My mother and I never really had the same interests– other than clothes– and as I have said– Rockwell was putting the screws to me.
That’s why I let Greg use my car in the first place. What did Greg do also at this family reunion? He volunteered to go pick up Jeffrey Johnson [said to be Aunt Judy’s youngest, but I believe Sondra oldest with someone by the name of Byron Monroe] and some of Pat’s nephews from the movies. I did not want Greg using the car– and took the bait. I raised my hand to go get the boys. Jeffrey kept playing with the radio and I was pissed. What do I think this was all about? JC Penney guy looks like Howard Johnson and I did nothing for him in September 1989. They were really mad and I had no idea they had even tried to set me up with a cousin I had not seen since I was ten. The other problem for that set up? Maryland nor most states care if you marry a cousin. I told him I wanted a friend. He did everything. He was mad. In 1992, apparently they were still mad. I get it now… back then? I was on vacation from Rockwell.
Bottom line– I was worried about my mother’s finances– and greg damaging my car and then volunteering my father’s, bothered me. Yes, it was a set up. No this is not why I do not like that idiot. I did not like him almost from the moment I met him in 1977 at Thanksgiving when Jan brought her new husband to the house in Odenton. What I was? Thankful my mother had relatives in the area once again. I still do not mind that my mother sees Jan. I don’t.
Raised my hand? I was protecting my mother’s property. I was setup. Jan’s bama should keep his distance. do not misread me.. and stop wasting my time.
I believe the biggest reason my family and friends have a problem with me– I am not insured. I never was. Cheryl’s– statement sometime after June 1984 [I know where the statement was made– the dinette table in my parents’ Hanover, MD home– but I think it was around 85 or 86] “I can’t stand to hear a fork scraping the plate”– seems to have meaning for many. John Winston [Rockwell] once told me his favorite celebrities were– Cheryl Tiegs and Julia Roberts. There is a Teague [sounds the same] county baseball field about half a mile down the road… I always [well since the why me? search began and I started looking for odd things said to me by family and friends that would explain what I was seeing] associate baseball with Cheryl’s plate in that statement.
Also– In November 1989 my father called to tell me to get my mother a Salad Shooter for her birthday. I never thought my mother liked kitchen gifts. I did not. Today- I think of Cheryl Ladd and ask what my father wanted to say. Did I think Cheryl was talking to me at the time I heard her make this statement? No. When my why me first started I thought the statement had something to do with a March AFB event [see blockquote of old post below] and the Air Force. Today– no one likes me? FBI– my rights should not be violated because no one likes I have no insurance. Tony Brazilton also, when I was in college once said to me– You have to get married by the time you are 30. I believe I am 2 years younger than official documents claim. That said– my father died when I was 30 on paper. Sometimes I think “married” by the insured bunch is “marred”.
I posted the following post on March 22, 2006 to the first version of Q’s Wire. The post title was Aunt C’s Statement. [Aunt C is referring to Cheryl].
Aunt C’s Statement —
Aunt C will make another thought provoking statement once while visiting. We are all sitting around the kitchen table area in my parents home [their second home after moving off post] and Aunt C says “I can’t stand to hear a fork scraping the plate”.
When the statement was issued I thought nothing of it. There are a lot of things I don’t like hearing. During the Why Search phase of my life I looked at this statement. I have noted the statement but I don’t like the incident I associate it with.
When my Why Search began I looked at bad things that had happened in my life and thought that all of this had something to do with what I was experiencing. One horrible incident — the <a href=”http://qisoftware.com/qblog/?p=406″ target=”_blank”>car accident</a> in Arizona. The other incident is on March Air Force Base in California. I don’t know if the March AFB incident actually happened and I cannot get independent confirmation. My mother can confirm the accident in Arizona. My mother can confirm that our little girl friend that lived across the way on March AFB in CA had an older brother — she cannot confirm the school yard scene because she was not there.
What I see — we are walking out of the school building with a teacher — it maybe for recess, we see the older brother of my friend over by the swings and the school yard fence. He appears to be beaten up and his pants are down — I see his backside only. I see this with a group of people — I in no way think I am part of the scene. When I asked my mother if she knew anything about this scene [this time frame — Why Search] she discussed something about my sister with the boy at the house. This scene is not at our house. I have no idea what she is talking about. I do not remember the older brother ever being at our house, only his younger sister — who was my age. We had a wagon and we took turns being the driver — while the others pushed. We also liked playing in the sprinkler. The friends are non-ethnic.
The playground scene looks very bad. I was not going to discuss this incident because I cannot confirm. I believe I have to put everything I know out there.
I went to French preschools [about 2-3 years] and did not do kindergarten upon arriving stateside. I was in the first grade in California — I cannot confirm I did the second grade in California. I believe I was in England for at least part of the second grade. My mother has too many inconsistencies in her memory for me to be able to rely on her for this information — and I cannot find all of my class pictures. This is in no way to suggest that my mother has something to hide — in my opinion she looks coached — as if she were in some sort of witness protection program.
When I first started the Why Search, I thought there was some controversy surrounding me, this incident and the Arizona accident were all somehow related. I thought maybe someone thought I saw something. Today, I realize it is the Washington VIP that probably puts me in the middle of this. I did not witness anything bad happening to my friend’s older brother. I only see the result of what happened.
Analyzing Aunt C’s statement — “Scraping the Plate” — I lived on a base [March Air Force Base] in California, I am attending a base elementary school and the person I think is hurt, is the brother of my friend who lives across the way — our backdoors face each other and there is a long winding sidewalk between our houses. I lived on a base in England too. We did not live on a base in Arizona. We did not live on a base in Paris. Upon coming here, my father’s assignment was not actually Fort Meade, but the other large facility collocated on Fort Meade. Fort Meade is a post.
The other problem with Aunt C’s statement is who I believe her mother is and who her father is. This is complicated. She may have been making a statement for who I believe is her mother. I looked at this statement for awhile. It is the way it was delivered. And why was the statement delivered at that point in time? She had been coming up for years — she had often been to our first house [after leaving Fort Meade].
Today it appears she was coached. You would have to ask Aunt C what she meant by the statement if indeed it is meant to say more than what it appears to say.
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